Sarah Elizabeth Relf

1951 - 2003
LocationHastings East Sussex
Age51 years
Cause of DeathBlood Clot
Date of Birth04/12/1951
Date of Death01/12/2003
Visitors373 since 09/01/2009
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my mum went down with flu she had everything that comes with it sneezing running nose ect i came home from work on the 1st of december 2003 to find she was finding it hard to breath she maon she didnt wanna go hopital so she comprmised with me and i rang nhs direct but they then said its a 999 ambulance on it way to u i grab u mum u was still moaning but once we got u in the ambulance they gave u oxgen she rosey cheeks came bk we arrived at the hospital at 830 pm we they du=id ever test going on u but u was still smiling then they decided to keep u in 24hr obbs which u wasnt happy about i left u once u was in ur bed and had ur beloved tea xxx i woke at 4 in the morning to the police knocking i knew then something had happened or was happening by the time they got me to u u had gone miss u soooooooooooo much but now u are a angel watching over me and sharna and ur to beautiful grand-daughters xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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7n yrs on

its 7 yrs today that u went and became a angel in heaven i still can not accept the fact u are gone and are never coming bk u were the best MUM ever i love and miss u millions xxxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

December 1, 2010

missin u xx

in the twlight of the morning, she heard a gentle call , and taking the hand of jesus, she quietly left us all. safe in the hands of jesus. we hold you close within our hearts,and there you will remain,to walk with us throughout our lives,until we meet again. so rest in peace,dear loved one,and thank you for all tou have done,we pray that god has given you the crown you truly won. no last farewell was spoken,we never said goodbye.you were gone before we knew,you left with words unspoken, and quickly slipped away. but along the path of memories you walk with us today . love and miss you so much mum xxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

June 14, 2010

MOTHERS DAY NANNY XX

we will be thinking of u today like we do every day but todays a day for mummys and nannys love and miss u so much nanny lot s of love ur grand daughter s isabella and emily xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

March 14, 2010

my mum

Sweet smile on your face as you sleep the pain away,
Resting in God's arms now, although in the ground your body lay.
He needed another angel in the Heavenly choir and that's why you had to go.
As you promised, you are still with us watching your children here below.

I never would have imagined the end would be like this, me comforting you.
Holding your hand, telling you not to worry was not an easy thing for me to do.
And even in your weakest hour you tried to comfort me too,
Caressing my face, and calming my soul as only a mother can soothe.

You have always been there through the thick and the thin
No matter what I've done, unconditionally you love never wavering.
When I told you of the mistakes I made and all the times people saw me fall
You simply nodded and gently replied 'so have we all'.
The key to success is learning from the past
Ensuring a brighter future is now the present task.

A pillar of strength even until the end
Fighting all life's battles, knowing it's triumphantly you would win
Pushing me to be the best that you know I can be
Reminding me to keep the faith and allow God to lead me.
Knowing it's through Christ that I can do all things
And as He never makes a mistake I will come through victoriously.

I miss you more than these words could ever say
The pain in my heart is from one unimaginable day
After I cried all that I could; my eyes still shed countless more tears
And when I try to sleep, I have nightmares of ten-thousand fears
I walk in footsteps on an unsure path
My load feels so heavy I am not sure I will last.

Silly though I may be I am afraid of life now that you're gone
Because I've always had a mother.
And Mommy, what about my sister
I wish you could have stayed just a little while longer, there's so much left to do
I wonder if I prayed hard enough and if so, did they get through.

Finding relief in knowing I will see you again someday soon
Remembering all you taught me xxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

January 25, 2010

mum

christmas gets harder the longer u are gone love and miss u heaps xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

December 27, 2009

NANNIE

happy birthday nannie love and miss u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx isabella and emily xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

December 4, 2009

MUM XXXX

happy birthday wish u was here with us love and miss u every day xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

December 4, 2009

NANNIE

we miss u every day but know u r that shinning start that shines throught our bedroom window every night sleep tight nannie xxxxxxxxx all our love ur granddaughters isabella and emily xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

December 1, 2009

mum

6 yrs today where has the time gone i miss u so much mum times have been hard wish u was here to get me through them i know u watching over me love u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

December 1, 2009

mum

mum the hardest thing for me to do is let go of the fact u have gone miss u every day loving u always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shavon McIvor (Daughter)

October 6, 2009
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